(Dis)Connecting

בס"ד

When Avraham Avinu defeats the four kings he makes off with a fair bit of wealth in spoils. Doing the "right thing" Avraham returns the wealth to the king of S'dom. When the king offers to let Avraham keep the money – Avraham Avinu declares emphatically – "I swear by G-d, I will not take a string nor a shoe strap from you!"

Why strings and straps ?

Strings and straps are both methods of connection. Some connections are more permanent, like tied knots, and some are meant to be strapped and unstrapped. The king of S'dom was offering Avraham Avinu a golden gift – with strings attached (pun intended!). The king wanted bragging rights that he had been responsible for Avraham Avinu's wealth.

And why would the king of S'dom care whether or not he was known as Avraham's benefactor? Because to a s'domite – wealth was everything. By retaining a connection to Avraham's wealth the king of S'dom was actually gaining. He would rise in echelons in Canaanite society.

This offer, and attitude, Avraham vehemently rejects.

"Man is not defined by his wealth," he tells the king, "and I wish no connection to you or your philosophy."

Sometimes we find ourselves caught up in something we may not be truly supportive of. It could be a sports team's winning streak or a sale at the boutique that sells the latest fashions. Step back and ask yourself – would I be willing to strap on this philosophy and worldview?

And while you're at it - what are you connected to ? And how strong are your knots ?

Hatzlacha !!